Compliance Is Destroying Us.

This one’s important, glad to chat again. 👋🏼

Here’s the truth no one wants to say out loud:
Public school enrollment is dropping across the country.
Parents are choosing other options.
And the competition isn’t just charters and privates.

It’s relevance.
It’s culture.
It’s purpose.

And while the house is on fire, what are too many schools doing?
Doubling down on compliance.
More rules. More paperwork. More one-size-fits-all.
More “because we said so.”

But here’s the problem:
Compliance doesn’t inspire anyone to stay.
It just makes them quieter on the way out the door.

The Reality: You Can’t Command Your Way to Engagement

You know what compliance gets you?

👎🏼 Students who follow the rules - but check out.
👎🏼 Teachers who say “yes” in the meeting - but shut their doors and do something else.
👎🏼 A leadership team focused on catching mistakes instead of building systems.

Compliance culture creates fear, not trust.
It builds compliance to people, not purpose.
And when something new shows up — new curriculum, new priority, new admin —
the whole system collapses again.

Because no one owned it.
They just followed the script.

What It Looks Like in Action

Want to fix the erosion of trust and engagement?
You don’t need another policy. You need a shift in leadership strategy.

✅ Build purpose before you enforce policy.
Don’t just say what to do. Explain why it matters—to kids, to the mission, to the future.

✅ Lead systems that make sense.
Teachers and students don’t resist structure. They resist nonsense.

✅ Invite teacher voice—then act on it.
If every idea gets a “we can’t do that,” they’ll stop bringing them.

✅ Talk about student experience like it actually matters.
If your systems work for the adults but not for the kids, they don’t actually work.

✅ Walk through classrooms with curiosity, not just a checklist.
Ask: Are these lessons relevant? Is the purpose clear? Can students see themselves in the work?

Leadership Moves You Can Make This Week

🔥 Audit your school’s systems through the “purpose test.”
Ask: Does this process help kids grow, help teachers teach, or help families feel connected? If not—it’s time to rethink it.

🔥 Replace compliance language with mission language.
Instead of “All teachers must…” try “In service of our goals, we’re asking everyone to…”

🔥 Hold a micro focus group with students or staff.
Ask: What’s something we do that doesn’t make sense anymore?

🔥 Be visible with a reason.
Use walkthroughs to spot where compliance is killing engagement—and where relevance is already alive and well.

🔗 Download the 500-Classroom Walkthrough Challenge
Look for purpose. Look for clarity. Look for connection.
Track what you’re seeing and lead with evidence—not assumption.

Download the 500-Classroom Walkthrough Challenge Now!

Final Thought: You Can’t Inspire Through Control

Public schools are at a crossroads.
And if we lead like we’re managing a factory—we’re going to lose the hearts of the people we need most.

✅ Teachers need to know their voice matters.
✅ Students need to feel seen and challenged.
✅ Families need to believe this place means something.

And none of that happens in a culture of compliance.
It happens when people believe in the mission—and feel like they’re part of building it.

📩 Hit reply—what’s one “compliance-first” policy you’ve let go of this year? What changed because of it?

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